My story was seeming too large to deal with, but now it's under control. Pretty much. :D Scene charts colour-coded for character POVs are my salvation. As is caller ID. Strangely excellent for names, that.
And I love my characters. They still need a lot of work done though. :D Strangely, I know why the girls function, but not exactly what they'll do in any given situation- while I know what the guys would say in most situations, but not why. This issue is probably aided by the fact that I have little-to-no idea why guys do things most of the time.
In fact, this is probably a good time to offer a flat apology for any masculine POV's I inflict on the world. I'm sorry.